My Message to Men Over 50 on How to Stay Vibrant, Healthy and Purposeful In Life
The older I get, the less interested I become in simply living a long life…
and the more interested I become in living a capable one.
As a man now approaching my 50s, I’ve found myself thinking more and more about health but not just in the conventional sense of good diet and regular exercise. True health for me has more components than just the physical. And it can take time to build these components into a daily routine.
Because I don’t just want to make it to 80 or 90…
…I want to still be strong enough to hike hills, dance, do yoga, lift weights and more;
…I want to be mobile enough to move without pain;
…Fit enough to travel freely;
…Healthy enough to enjoy the life I’ve built;
…Present enough to show up fully for the people I care about,
…and most important of all, wake up each day with energy and purpose.
The truth is, many men and women spend their younger years building careers, raising families, and taking responsibility for others… only to arrive in midlife and realise they neglected the very things that carries them through it all:
…their own physical, mental and spiritual wellbeing.
For my life plan, I never use the word ‘retirement’ as I believe this is tantamount to pressing the ‘fast-track ageing’ button in our DNA. It has a psychosomatic effect. And I have a mantra – a philosophy – that I repeat constantly: I am just getting started; I have so much more to do; I am getting younger everyday.
To some that will likely sound delusional. Perhaps – but more often than not it instills a positive frame of mind in me to keep moving forward. If we tell ourselves we are ‘getting old’ or ‘slowing down’ or ‘I can’t do what I used to’ that’s fine and realistic but not a philosophy I want to live by – it will very quickly make you less mobile. And I’ve witnessed this many times over.
But the good news is that modern research increasingly shows we do have a tremendous amount of influence over how well we age. We just have to adjust our mindset and our habits.
While genetics certainly play a role and we cannot escape the effects of ageing, much of what determines our long-term health, independence and vitality comes down to the habits and choices we make consistently over time.
Although ageing presents its own challenges for everyone, men and women may sometimes experience and internalise those changes differently. In many men, concerns around ageing, physical decline and changing capability can strike deeply at one’s sense of identity and pride — yet these are conversations many men rarely feel comfortable having openly. So I wanted to write a short yet optimistic piece to all you guys who might be worrying about getting older.
The Reality: Our Bodies Do Begin to Change After 50
Let’s be honest — most men begin to notice certain physical changes as they move into their 50s and beyond.
This may include:
- a gradual loss of muscle mass and strength
- slower recovery after exercise or physical work
- more stiffness and joint discomfort
- reduced flexibility and mobility
- increased abdominal fat gain
- changes in hormones and energy levels
- and sometimes a greater susceptibility to stress and fatigue
These changes are natural and happen to almost everyone to some degree.
But while ageing is inevitable…
…rapid decline is not.
Many of the things we commonly associate with “getting old” are actually the result of inactivity, chronic stress, poor recovery, and neglect — not age itself.
The Strengths Men Gain With Age
Although we often focus on the physical changes of ageing, I believe many men gain some of their greatest strengths later in life. Admittedly, I can’t run as fast as I once did or lift as heavy in the gym as 10 years ago. But I actually feel like I am taking care of myself way more than I used to. And there is so many positive attributes, physically, mentally and spiritually, that we have to look forward to.
By the time we reach our 50s and beyond, many of us have developed:
- greater emotional resilience
- stronger discipline and patience
- improved self-awareness
- more life experience and wisdom
- clearer priorities
- and a deeper appreciation of what truly matters
In many ways, your later decades can become your most grounded and meaningful years — provided you take care of your body and mind enough to enjoy them.
What Research Says Predicts Healthy Ageing and Independence
Studies into longevity and healthy ageing repeatedly show that several physical qualities strongly predict whether someone remains active and independent into their later decades.
1. Strength
Maintaining muscle mass is one of the most important things we can do as we age.
Strength supports:
- mobility
- metabolism
- bone density
- posture
- joint health
- and fall prevention
Resistance training 2–3 times per week can make a huge difference. And it isn’t the amount of weight we use but the regularity.
2. Cardiovascular Fitness
Cardiorespiratory fitness is one of the strongest predictors of lifespan.
Activities like:
- brisk walking
- hiking
- cycling
- swimming
- rowing
- and hill walking
all support heart, lung, metabolic health and keeping visceral fat (the deep fat surrounding the organs) low. Again, it isn’t the duration or intensity of a cardio session that truly matters, it is the frequency.
3. Balance and Coordination
Balance is often overlooked, but it is strongly linked to independence and injury prevention later in life.
Helpful activities include:
- yoga
- Tai Chi
- dance
- barefoot balance work
- agility drills
- single-leg exercises
4. Mobility and Flexibility
Maintaining joint range and tissue flexibility helps preserve movement quality and reduce stiffness.
Practices like:
- yoga
- Pilates
- stretching
- mobility drills
- dynamic warm-ups
can all be hugely beneficial.
5. Core Strength and Stability
A strong trunk supports:
- spinal health
- posture
- balance
- athletic movement
- and injury prevention
This becomes increasingly important as we age.
The Key Takeaway About Exercise?
The underlying factor or common thread with exercise is to keep moving regularly every single day. Yes the type of exercise matters and yes there are physical benefits from all the different types of exercise – my recommendation is to do a mixture of all types across each week – but actually the ingredient that is doing the magic here is movement.
We do not need to complete mammoth-long exercise sessions in the gym to stay healthy. To stay healthy, to feel positive, to maintain our youthful outlook, to feel vibrant, we just need to be doing some kind of physical movement each day and regularly throughout the week.
Managing Stress and Supporting the Nervous System
From my personal experience and what I have seen in others throughout my life and profession, one thing many men underestimate is the impact stress has on the body.
Chronic stress can contribute to:
- muscle tension
- poor sleep
- digestive issues
- hormone disruption
- weight gain
- fatigue
- anxiety and burnout
This is why practices that regulate the nervous system become increasingly valuable with age.
Examples include:
- meditation
- breathwork
- mindfulness
- spending time in nature
- reducing overstimulation
- journalling/reflection
- making time for stillness and recovery
Nutrition and Supplementation for Men Over 50
A good diet doesn’t need to be complicated.
Focus on eating:
- high-quality protein to preserve muscle
- plenty of vegetables and fibre
- healthy fats such as olive oil, nuts, seeds and oily fish
- whole, minimally processed foods
- enough water throughout the day
Supplements many men may wish to discuss with their healthcare provider include:
- Vitamin D – especially in colder climates where deficiency is common
- Magnesium – supports sleep, recovery and muscle function
- Omega-3 fatty acids – for heart and brain health
- Zinc – supports immune and hormonal health
- Creatine – increasingly researched for muscle and cognitive support
Be Proactive With Your Health
One of the smartest things we can do as we age is stop waiting for problems before acting.
Regular health checks can help identify issues early:
- blood pressure
- cholesterol
- blood sugar / metabolic health
- testosterone if symptoms arise
- vitamin/mineral levels
- general physical assessments
Likewise, working with:
- physical therapists
- movement specialists
- health practitioners
- or therapeutic bodyworkers
…can help you identify limitations and movement restrictions before they become injuries or contribute to pathologies.
Purpose Matters More Than Most People Realise
This – alongisde reducing stress – is the biggy in my opinion – purpose. I believe this is perhaps the most overlooked part of healthy ageing for everybody.
The psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl, in his book Man’s Search for Meaning, famously wrote:
“Those who have a ‘why’ to live can bear almost any ‘how.’”
Frankl believed that meaning and purpose are fundamental to human wellbeing.
And I believe he was right.
As men age, purpose often becomes even more important.
Having a reason to get up each day — to contribute, to help, to create, to guide, to serve — can profoundly impact mental and emotional wellbeing.
Purpose may come from:
- family
- mentoring others
- meaningful work
- helping your community
- creative passions
- volunteering
- spiritual practice
- or simply being someone others can depend upon
Research increasingly supports this idea.
Studies have shown that individuals who report a strong sense of purpose in life often experience:
- lower rates of depression and anxiety,
- greater resilience during stressful periods,
- improved cardiovascular health,
- better cognitive function as they age,
- and even lower rates of overall mortality.
In simple terms, people who feel they have meaning in their lives often live not only happier, but healthier lives.
And perhaps intuitively, this makes sense.
When we feel useful…
when we feel needed…
when we feel we still have something to offer…
we tend to carry ourselves differently.
We look after ourselves better.
We endure hardship more resiliently.
We feel more connected to life itself.
A healthy life is not just about adding years to your life.
It is about adding life to your years.
And Beyond Purpose… Perhaps There Is Something Deeper Still
Beyond purpose, I believe there is another important part of wellbeing that many people overlook:
…peace of mind.
Modern life has a way of constantly pulling us outward —
towards achievement, distraction, comparison, worry, ambition and noise.
Many people spend their whole lives chasing the next thing:
the next success,
the next purchase,
the next milestone,
the next distraction.
Always believing peace will come later.
But thinkers such as Eckhart Tolle, in The Power of Now and A New Earth, remind us of something rather profound:
That peace does not come from endlessly chasing more.
It comes from learning to quiet the mind.
From stepping beyond the constant chatter of thought.
Beyond the endless worries, regrets and mental noise.
Beyond the part of us that constantly compares, judges and seeks validation.
In many ways, it means learning to move beyond our ego —
that restless part of the mind which always wants more, fears loss, and ties our worth to achievement or identity.
And instead reconnecting with something quieter beneath it all:
a deeper presence,
a stillness,
a spaciousness within ourselves that is always there when we stop long enough to notice it.
Because while a strong body matters…
and while purpose matters…
…there is also great strength in simply being at peace within yourself.
As I said, to be healthy, in my opinion, is not merely to be physically fit.
It is to care for the whole self:
body, mind and spirit.
And perhaps true wellbeing comes when all three are nurtured together.
My Personal Perspective
Personally, I try to practise what I preach.
Your habits will be different but I prioritise:
- strength training
- cardio
- hiking
- yoga
- mobility work
- recovery
- community work
- socializing
- putting spiritual practice into the actions of my daily life
- and generally doing a combination of activities that look after body, mind and spirit
Because I want to remain strong, active and capable for as long as possible.
And this philosophy is a large part of why I do the work I do.
Through therapeutic bodywork using osteopathic and shiatsu principles, I help people:
- reduce tension
- improve mobility
- recover better
- support nervous system regulation
- and keep their bodies functioning optimally for the long term
Because that helps them to keep doing the things they love and because bodywork, to me, is not just about pain relief.
It is about helping people keep moving, feel and live better throughout every stage of life.
Final Thoughts
If I could offer one piece of advice to every man over 50, it would be this:
Do not fear ageing.
Prepare for it.
Look after your body.
Train your strength.
Keep moving.
Reduce stress.
Eat well.
Stay curious.
Help others.
Live with purpose.
And invest in yourself now so your future self thanks you later.
Because the goal is not simply to grow old.
The goal is to grow older well.
After all, what is the point in living a long life if we do not learn how to truly enjoy and appreciate it while we are here?
Stay strong. Keep moving. Live with purpose.
— Max
About the Author
Max Edwards is a therapeutic bodyworker based in Coquitlam, BC, offering hands-on treatments incorporating osteopathic and shiatsu principles to support mobility, recovery, nervous system balance and long-term wellness.
Through therapeutic bodywork using osteopathic and shiatsu principles, I help clients throughout Coquitlam, and the Tri-Cities reduce tension, improve mobility, support recovery, and keep their bodies functioning optimally for the long term.
If you are based in Coquitlam, or the Tri-Cities and are looking for support with mobility, recovery or long-term wellness, I’d be happy to help.
Max Edwards
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